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Giving a Speech for the
Non-Professional:
Tips to Improve Your Presentation
By Andrea Gold
Copyright © 2008 by Andrea Gold. All Rights
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Most people are either
nervous or scared about speaking in front of an
audience. If this describes you, we have some
suggestions that may help. Being in the business of
providing speakers, we know that there are some who are
petrified about speaking. In fact, giving a speech has
been ranked as the greatest fear for a large majority of
the population. Even some professional speakers and
entertainers carry that fear up to the microphone with
them.
What makes
people afraid of giving a speech? Most seem to agree
that it is the fear of looking foolish, especially in
front of an important or influential audience. What if
they say something that is offensive or wrong? What if
they forget what they were going to say and find
themselves frozen on the stage? What if the audience
doesn’t like what they are saying? What if their boss or
co-workers are in the audience and they stumble over
their words or get confused over the points they were
trying to cover? Well, there are a few ideas you can use
to help relieve youself of your fears and improve your
speech.
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Do not worry about any nervousness. The people in the
audience will see the nervousness and then translate
that into your caring about what you are going to say.
They realize that you are concerned about making your
speech as perfect as possible for them. That will make
them want to pull for you. Besides, nervous energy is
simply energy and it boosts your presentation.
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Get to know your audience. Many professional speakers will
arrive early to check out the audiovisual equipment.
Then, they will wait for the attendees to arrive. They
will greet as many as they can, say a few words,
perhaps thanking them for coming. When you do this,
you will no longer be talking to strangers—instead,
you will be talking to friends. Stop thinking of the
audience as a great white shark, waiting for you to
stumble and eat you alive.
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Know your material. You should only give a speech about
something you know very well. You should generally
know at least three or four times more than the speech
you give. This is especially critical if you are asked
a question, either on the platform or off.
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Take-home message. Know the bottom-line message you wish to
convey to your audience. This is the message your
speech should be built around. All your stories,
examples, statistics should keep bringing out and
supporting your intended message.
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Simple is almost always better. Do not try to educate your
audience with a speech. Education is best left in a
classroom setting or an all-day seminar. Have only a
few points you wish to make and center these points
around your take-home message. Professional speakers
will often ask a meeting planner, “What do you want
your audience to take home with them after my speech?”
They then tailor their presentation to meet the
meeting planner's expectation.
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Practice your speech. Regardless of how many times you have
given the same speech, practice it out loud. If
possible, have a video taken of yourself. I remember
an interview with Arsenio Hall when he hosted an
evening talk show. He stated that after each show, he
would spend hours going over each show with his staff,
taking suggestions on how he could have done things
better.
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Your opening. The first 3-5 minutes of your speech is
critical. It is best if this is memorized. That way,
you will start off running. Now, the first few minutes
will also set the tone of the speech. If you start
with a joke, the audience will expect that this will
be a humorous presentation. If you start with powerful
statistics, they will expect to be educated. If you
use something in the news, they will then expect you to
center your talk around that news item.
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Never apologize. No matter what you do or don’t do, do not
apologize. Never open a speech by apologizing for not
being a professional speaker. Do not apologize if you
make a mistake—simply correct the error and go on.
Most of the time, the audience will not even realize
that you made a mistake. If it is a large mistake,
make a joke of it, such as, "I was just testing to see
if you were paying attention."
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Use a little humor. No, you are not going to do a stand-up
comedy routine. But if you can find anything humorous
to use, the audience will love it. If you use your
humorous line and no one laughs, use a saver line,
such as, “that would have gone over big in Hoboken!”
Then go on.
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Pauses are important. Stop talking for a moment after making
an important point. Also pause after telling a
humorous line or story. It may seem like an
agonizingly long time, but the audience needs a moment
to get the humor. If they don’t, just go on or use a
saver line.
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Do not read your speech. You are not giving a testimony
before a Congressional committee. You are simply
trying to communicate your ideas in an interesting
way. You could have an outline of what you wish to
say. Additionally, most professional speakers will not stand behind
a lecture. They feel that it separates them from the
audience. If you wish to remain behind the lecture,
please do not clutch it like a crutch.
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Use your body. It is reported that much of our communication
is transmitted through body language. How you stand,
your hand movements, how you walk across the platform,
your facial expressions, and eye contact are talking
to your audience. When you practice your speech, stand
in front of the mirror and watch how your body moves.
If you are videotaping yourself, watch your body
language. Turn off the sound and see what your body is
saying to you. That will be what your body will be
saying to your audience.
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Focus your speech. Do not try to talk to the whole audience
and move your gaze back and forth across the audience.
I call this the machine gun aiming of a speech.
Instead, pick a few people in different parts of the
room who seem to be enjoying your speech. Now talk to
them. Look at each one for about 10 seconds before
moving on to the next. Everyone in that general area
will swear that you were speaking to them personally.
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Get personal. You are sharing your point of view and this is
best given with your personal experiences and ideas.
Points are best made through stories. Professional
speakers have commented that years after their speech,
they may meet a former attendee will repeat their
story and then explain how it had affected their
lives. Great stories are rarely forgotten. A powerful
speech entertains while it gives ideas to improve
people’s lives.
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Visualize your success. Professional athletes do it before
competing. They imagine themselves performing
perfectly, winning at the finish line. You can do the
same with a speech. Imagine you are in front of your
audience. Mentally go over your speech. See the
audience really enjoying what you are saying. See them
absorbing your information, loving your command of the
platform, and laughing at your humor. When you finally
get on the platform, you will feel as if you had been
there many times before. It will calm you and help you
to deliver your message.
I know that
this is a lot of information. However, even if you only
use a few of these ideas, your speech will improve.
If you would like to see how some of our professionals deliver
their speeches, please feel free to look at their videos
on this website. Naturally, most of these demo video
clips are edited, showing the best our speakers have to
deliver. However, you will enjoy their mastery of the
art of speaking. Enjoy!
Click
here to see a few speakers' demo videos. Speakers
are listed alphabetically, by their last name.
Copyright © 2008 by Andrea Gold. All Rights
Protected.
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